…or let’s maybe establish a bar? I tell ya’, we put up with SO much, tryna work with brothas, who are simply not worth our time. I’ll try to keep this short and sweet.

When you start a new job, you’re usually on “probation” for ninety (90) days. During your probationary period, your performance is under intense scrutiny: Your new employer is looking at your attitude, your work ethic and your attendance. You have no room for foolishness, cuz you’ve not established a history. So any “shaky” behavior will be rewarded with a show to the door, and a “Thanks, but we don’t think you’re a good fit for…”. The end.

Now, why do we not have the same “probationary” period for relationships? Before you give your heart AND your body (celibacy till marriage is God’s design), don’t you think you need to learn something about a dude’s…character? If a guy can’t do/be/act right, for ninety (90) days, why is he even being CONSIDERED for the position of ”significant other”?

A Nappy Girl