Why can’t I say, “I don’t appreciate what you said to me”, without you having to interpet it as meaning that I don’t like you, or I’m picking on you or “going off” on you? Why can’t it sometimes cause you to go back and think about what you said, and possibly attribute the misunderstanding to a “poor communication” moment? Think before you speak. When you misspeak, own up to it and move on.
Sometimes, people like this…man make me wanna find another planet to live on. I wish Jesus would beam me up, cuz things are going to get much worse.
The more I work with brides-to-be, the less I’m surprised at the high divorce rate. Women can be a piece of work. You see it a lot, when we’re about to get married. I’ve been tempted on more than one occasion to corner a soon-to-be-groom, and say, “Now, you know you don’t have to do this, right?” Run for your life, young man. Wow.
This made my entire month. I believe him, too. 
If he’s not “The One”, then quit trying to make something work that ain’t gonna work. Don’t keep hanging on, because you’re crazy about the attention, but not the actual…guy. Men hurt, just like us. Grow up and treat folks the way you’d wanna be treated, if you were in their shoes. Nobody wants to be “settled for”, and you reap MORE than you sow…
A Nappy Girl
A-mand!
Hey T! It’s been way too long. I pray that you are well blessed and in good spirits. LOVE THE NEW BLOG by the way. It’s user friendly and oh so sophisticated…I expected nothing less! I’ve been off the scene as of late, but I wanted to give you some good energy and continued blessings! And Derrick’s birthday serenade to his wife is love in rare form! Brilliant!
~Kisha
Re the first paragraph, some people aren’t mature enough to respectfully disagree on a matter or have a non-confrontational confrontation. Maybe it was how they were socialised, or they haven’t learned to attack issues without attacking the other person. Then again, there’s pride, not being humble enough to admit that they were wrong, or could be wrong.
“I’ve been tempted on more than one occasion to corner a soon-to-be-groom, and say, “Now, you know you don’t have to do this, right?” Run for your life, young man.”
LMAO. Are you going to give in to the temptation one of these days?
Great post!