The Heart of The Matter
Why is it when women express insecurity about their looks/attractiveness, women often make it about somebody else, rather than the actual women with the issues? “Oooh girl, you’re so pretty! If a guy doesn’t find YOU attractive, he’s clearly insane!!” Really? Why can’t a guy not find you attractive? Now, I’m all for thinking positive [...]
Black Men and Natural Hair
Okay. I’m surfing the web this morning (it’s after 2AM, and I should be in bed), and I come across this blog post, referencing a comment made by a used-to-be-napptural sista, who gave up the her natural hair (and went back to the “creamy crack”) because….she wanted male attention, and brothas were not feelin’ her. [...]
Why He Didn’t Call
Essence magazine published an article many years ago, about the reasons men take phone numbers, but never follow up with actual…phone calls. I wish I had that magazine, cuz I’d make copies of that article and pass it on to EVERY woman I know. I remember most of it, and I’ve experienced some of it. [...]
